Archive for March 21st, 2008

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Of One Accord

March 21, 2008

On a stormy day last month Melissa hit an icy patch of the interstate and slid off the highway, through a fence and onto a frontage road.  She was able to drive the car home but there was a lot of body damage.  Most of the body was going to need to be replaced and, after originally giving us an estimate, the insurance company decided it would be better just to total it. 

Every day for the last month, we’ve been looking at craigslist trying to find a slightly used honda or toyota.  After seeing more than our fair share of adds for sub $3000 nearly new honda civics and toyota camrys (all who just happen to have sellers living overseas who would need payment to be posted through some suspisous account) we finally made time to go looking today and we ended up getting a car and being very happy with our choice.

He got a 2001 Honda Accord EX from the Honda dealership in town.  We actually had a suprisingly similar experience to the last time we bought a car.  We shopped all around but mainly looked at the toyota and honda dealerships.  The toyota dealership didn’t have great service at all (though the guy who helped us was nice enough) and we felt a lot of the typical uneasy feelings about car shopping while there.  The Honda dealership on the other hand was great.  We went back three times and never once felt any pressure.  We always dealt with a great guy named Sean Farris who shot straight with us the whole time.  When it actually came down to numbers he told us that he hates the money games some people play and just asked what we were thinking we would spend.  I was a little skeptical at first but ended up just letting him know what Melissa and I had said we’d be happy if we got the car for.  He left for a few minutes and came back with a deal.  No negotiation.  No haggling.  He just gave it to us for what we asked (which is good because after saying he didn’t play games we were fine with walking out if they tried to haggle).  If you need a car we would highly recommend Sean at Honda.

All in all it was a good day.  The process always takes a long time but now we’ve got a cool new Honda with lots of fun features.  It even has an in-dash six CD changer (now that we never really listen to CDs anymore).  Check it out:

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The Power of WITH

March 21, 2008

During one of the final Illini Basketball games of the season I saw a commercial that intrigued me.  It was surprisingly deep for an ad, especially one promoting the merger of two financial companies.

It was all about the power of with.  It simply showed pictures of people living in community.  People laughing together, playing together, living together, etc.  Then a voice came on talking about the difference that the one little word with can make. 

“She’s with child.” (pregnant woman rubbing her belly)
“She’s with me.” (short high school boy at prom with tall girl)
“We’re with the band.” (two old ladies dancing…kinda random)

Everyone is looking for the with.  We were all made with a desire to live in community.  That really should be what the church is.  Not a place where we can sneak in and out to check our attendance off on a to-do list but a place where we are known, challenged and genuinely cared about. 

When Melissa talks about the importance of small groups she often shows a clip from the classic TV show, Cheers.  The draw of the bar, and really the draw of the show, was the feeling that you’re in a place, “where everybody knows your name.” 

It is easy for me to get caught up in my own little world and get comforable with the few people who I already know and can call my friends.  But every once in a while it is good to get a reminder that there are so many people out there who are really just looking for the WITH.  God made us to be a part of the church so that we could be the WITH in the lives of hurting and broken people.  Now, if we could I can only look beyond myself and begin seeing the people right in front of me who are in search of that one little word.

(I looked all over for a place to see the ad online but had no luck.  If anyone happens to know where to find it, let me know.)